Hip somebody to this now:
I’d like you to do me a favor. I’d like you to make a list – a written one, please, not a mental one – of the rules you currently live your life, your job, your relationship, or your business by. I want you to start asking and examining and questioning – and the key is questioning – why you do that; what they are; where you learn them; whether or not they’re necessary; what the alternatives are; how other people who don’t follow your rules live their lives, run their businesses, operate their relationships.
I think if you start doing this, the mindset will come into play and you’ll start enthusiastically and continuously seeking to go above the limitations you have imposed, the rules you have allowed society, yourself, your organization, your business, your employer to impose upon you. There is no law that says you have to live your life, your relationship, your career, or your business by those rules ever again.