Only Our Tribe Really Gets It


2019 Global Production Status – 11 pieces

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We’ve observed that there are three distinct types of reciprocity that occur in human societies around the world–generalized, balanced, and negative.  Generalized reciprocity is gift giving without the expectation of an immediate return.  For example, if you are shopping with a friend and you buy him a DFFRNTWRLD® lighter, you may expect him to buy you one in return at some time in the future. However, you would likely be mildly offended if he insisted on buying you a DFFRNTWRLD® lighter at the same time that you bought him one. To do so would suggest that he does not wish to become involved in a continuing reciprocal exchange with you. In a sense, it is a rejection of your token of friendship.

With balanced reciprocity, there is an explicit expectation of immediate return. Simple barter or supermarket purchases involve this understanding. If you walk out of a store without paying for the goods that you have taken, you very likely will be stopped by the store employees and possibly arrested because you failed to immediately reciprocate with the appropriate amount of money. Christmas gifts in the Western World are also usually a form of roughly balanced reciprocity. If you go to the home of relatives or close friends on Christmas and give them Christmas gifts, there is an expectation that you will receive gifts in return at the same time. If you do not receive them, you are likely to infer that your relatives or friends either made a social mistake or do not care about you. On the other hand, giving a birthday present is more like generalized reciprocity because you do not expect a gift in return when you give one. However, you may expect to get one from the recipient of your gift later in the year when your birthday comes along.

Negative reciprocity occurs when there is an attempt to get someone to exchange something when there is an attempt to get a more valued thing than you give in return. This may involve trickery, coercion, or hard bargaining. For instance, when one person in an exchanges tries to get something for nothing or for less than its recognized worth.



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